R U OK?

Attend wellbeing events and know how to access health services on any day.

About R U OK? Day

R U OK? Day 2023 is happening Thursday 14 September.

The aim of the day is to remind everyone to: Ask R U OK? I'm here to hear. Because a conversation could change a life. We can all make a difference when someone in our world is struggling with life’s ups and downs by helping them feel connected and supported, no matter what they might be facing.

Learn more about the health and wellbeing services that are available to you if you are not feeling yourself or are struggling with life's challenges.

To recognise the day every year, the University hosts a range of events to help students connect, discuss the importance of mental health and learn how to access support.

R U OK? Day – Main Event

Come and join the R U OK? Day celebrations on Thursday 14 September! Find out about services available to support your wellbeing and get involved in a range of fun activities to promote social connectedness.

Choose your activities

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Advice on reaching out and connecting with others

  • Where is the best place to ask someone if they are ok?

    Pick a place that is private and comfortable so that they feel like they can open up to you.

    For example, you could:

    • Check in with a family member or a housemate whilst you are cooking together
    • Do exercise workouts with friends and chat with them
    • Organise a regular coffee date with a friend or a workmate and ask how they are
    • Catch up with a friend while going for a walk outside
    • Have a pet meetup session with friends and check in.
  • How do I ask someone if they are ok?

    If you need some help reaching out to someone, follow these steps and visit this page.

    1. Ask: Be relaxed and friendly in your approach. You could ask 'How are you going?' or 'What has been happening?' to help someone open up.
    2. Listen: Be patient, open-minded and non-judgmental as they speak. You could ask 'How long have you been feeling this way?' to find out more about their situation.
    3. Encourage action: Stay positive and ask them how they want to be supported. If necessary, remind them that there is always professional support available. Find support here.
    4. Check in: Keep in touch and be there for them. This really makes a big difference and shows someone that you genuinely care.

    Steps to check in

Health and wellbeing services

Looking after yourself is important while looking out for others. Balancing life and study can be challenging so it’s important to take care of your physical health and mental wellbeing.

There are a range of health and wellbeing services at the University that you can access if you ever need help:

Find health and wellbeing support

Access counselling and after hours support

You’re not alone if you are going through a tough time, feeling overwhelmed and upset, or struggling with your mental health.

For free and confidential counselling, you can contact:

For more information, visit the Counselling & Psychological Services page.